November Caregiving Report - 2023 12 09
Caregiving time distribution, November 2023 My story of family caregiving is not unusual. In fact, it is possibly better than average because my Mom is such a kind, generous and gracious person. That does not change the fact that it is unsustainable. For the month of November I contributed over 500 hours of caregiving, including providing room and board, as well as Power of Attorney, Medical Representative and Mom's finances. It begs the question. How is my family supposed to contribute this much time, property, expertise, responsibility and administration without additional operational cost accounting? How am I expected to carry on life as if there were no cost to me personally, professionally, mentally and emotionally? As I look back on 2023 and what we have accomplished, I am proud of the work we have done to keep our frail elder at home, healthy, happy, contemplating the end of her life with dignity and composure. As I look ahead at 2024, I feel overwhelmed, dreadful, guilty a...